Are You a Shy Guy and Need Girl Friend

Step 1: You must know Qualities of your dream girl friend?

In order to find a girlfriend about which type you like first you have to imagine a picture in your mind about her Qualities, Interests, her value and where she spend most of her time.

            You must also make a picture of her about her physical appearance that is she tall or short, what type of address she wears, her physical shape, is she like natural or make up and what type of color she applied on her hairs.

            Make a clear picture in your mind as clear as possible would help you, if did not do this may be when you found a group of girls you may confused in every single girl in that group.

Step 2  Are you as good as a girl likes you?

            Now you decided that what type of girl you wants be your girlfriend, now it’s time to think about yourself that is your nature, physic is as good as a girl like you. If your answer is yes then you are ready for go ahead.

And if you have any confusion about this then you should follow these below mentioned steps.

There are two option for you that are Improve yourself or make you’re slandered as low as normal girl likes

In my point of view you should go for second option means to improve yourself

          Now its time to be practical about to improve to get a girlfriend of your dream,let be in your mind that you got a chance to meet a girl who is exactly match your requirement and you know that you has a single chance to talk her and if she does not like you did not come to talk you again.

Now come to the point and write the things that a person can improve himself,

below are the areas in which a guy improve him self

1. ·         Social skills (how you connect someone and ways you talk)
2. ·         Hygiene and grooming 
3. ·         Posture,  because it tells a lot about your lifestyle and how you feel
4. ·         Fitness and nutrition, makes you feel and look better
5. ·         Fashion style, again, makes you feel and look better and is easy to change

You probably ask yourself “Why should I improve? Doesn’t the ideal girlfriend like me the way I am?”

You should improve for two reasons:

·         For her--> because if you have all these expectations of how she should be, then you better make sure you fulfill them as well.

·         For yourself-->because if you feel sexy, women will find you much more attractive.

Step 3: Destinations where you may find girlfriend of your preferences.

      Normally people always found in groups that are in same mind sets like those have similar views and interests always go areas of there similar events and clubs etc in short people nearly found of like minded people.So you need to get in that type of events etc those which matched thinking of your desired girl friend mind.

For example:
If you want to be with a business woman who likes wearing beautiful dresses and enjoys going to elegant restaurants, it’s probably pointless to search for her in a sports bar that offers two for one drinking promotions. You will have a better chance to find a woman like that at business conferences, cocktail parties or red carpet events.

Tip for shy people: Join a community of people which matches your preferences

One of the best ways to meet interesting people of both sexes is joining a community.

I am talking about sports clubs, debating teams, cooking classes, martial arts, and whatever else people enjoy doing together.

Joining a community is especially helpful for shy people because you get to know a lot of new people with similar interests in a way that is natural and fun. No cold approaching required.

Here is what you should look for in a community:

·         People are inviting and help newbies get up to speed.
·         The attendees of the group hang out together outside of the group as well.
·         There are no subgroups in the community.
·         People there are positive and motivating.
·         The guys in the group aren't hitting on the women there.
·         You get along well with the people there.

Try different communities to find one that you truly enjoy being a part of. You can test most communities for free by just sending an email to the organizer, asking if you may attend the next meeting to see if it's right for you.

Step 4: You have met a girl that seems to be a great fit. How can you ask her out?

The best way is to come up with something you think both of you would enjoy and then invite her to go with you.

like ''Hey I have tickets for the cinema for Tuesday. Do you want to join me?

Going to a cooking class with her, watching a movie at an open air cinema, or getting a cup of coffee and going to a book reading together are way better.

No matter what date you choose, the most important thing is to choose a date that involves actively doing something, like playing pool billiard, cooking etc. That way you will not run into the dreaded “sitting across each other in silence” situation.

Step 5: How can you flirt with her on a date?

With flirting I mean showing her clearly that you’re interested. If you don’t, then you risk being seen as “just a friend”.

How can you show her that you are more than just a friend without being creepy?

I’ll give you my top three ways to accomplish that.

Touching

Touching is by far the best way to show a woman that you want her. It’s important however to do it right, or else you’ll come across creepy.

Touching is a way of expressing emotions. It’s a gesture that speaks so to say. Hugging someone tight who is upset is not a way to “escalate” sexuality but a way of empathizing with the person.

Once you have developed the ability to empathize with people, that means putting yourself in their shoes for a moment to experience what they feel, touching will come completely natural to you.

However, there are a few tips that will give you a head start.

Good ways to start, are touches that are socially approved, like:

• ·         Hugging as a greeting when you meet her. 
• ·         Putting your arm around her when you take selfies.
• ·         Guiding her somewhere with your hand on her lower back. 
• ·         Touching the outside of her leg with your leg when you sit next to each other.
• ·         Putting your arm around her and rubbing her upper arm when she is cold.
• ·         Hugging or giving a high five when one of you won something or did a great job at something.

Eye contact

The second way to show her you are more than just a friend is ridiculously simple: Look her in the eyes.

Often, guys are nervous at a first date and therefore avoid eye contact without knowing it. Just remind yourself of it and you will be fine.

Word of caution: Direct eye contact for more than 3-5 seconds is too intense for most people. Make solid eye contact whenever you listen, but look to the side or up every couple of seconds when you are talking.

Honesty

Honesty makes it impossible to end up in the friend zone and it separates you from almost every men out there because, let’s be honest, most guys just say what they think gets them closer to sleeping with her.

I’ll give you a couple of examples what I mean by honesty and what I don’t mean:

Honesty doesn’t mean drowning her in all your kinky secrets. It just means talking to her like a mature person who knows what he wants and doesn’t apologize for it.

Step 6: How to transition into a relationship.

You had an amazing date with a great woman and you followed up afterwards successfully. Of course you want to meet her again, but how?

First, you should stay in touch with her after your first date. If something noteworthy came up in your life, tell her.

"You won't believe what happened to me today. You know I recently started this new job. Well, somehow I managed to be late to work two times in a single day. 

Show weakness. Laugh about yourself. Show her that you are a human being with emotions who enjoys sharing them with her, but who also cares about her life.

If you manage to do that, arranging to meet again will be as easy as 1,2,3.

After a couple of dates the two of you will naturally drift into a relationship. Sounds simplistic, I know, but bear with me.

All that matters is everything you did before the date. Improving yourself, selecting the right girl, being honest with her – trust me, the rest will be taken care of.

With the wrong one you can’t do anything right, and with the right one you can’t do anything wrong.

All the tips I’ve given you are examples that work for my personality. You are a unique person with your own style, your own jokes and your own behavior.

I suggest you go through the tips and think about how you can do something similar in your own style. Never copy anyone – especially if you want to find someone who loves you for who you are.

Thanks for reading if you have come this far.